Wow, this weekly opportunity to spread the Apartment Awesome story has been
well, awesome! I don’t know if I’ve mentioned that part yet-that my new and
fabulous residence has been dubbed Apartment Awesome. Hopefully the weeks to
come will afford me many chances to explain why...
It’s a muggy August afternoon in Budd
Lake and I’m in a state of shock. I’ve just been told that my seemingly endless
search for handicap-accessible housing has come to a marvelous end! In a few
months time I would be moving to Allendale, in Bergen County. I hadn’t heard of
the town but then again, it's super small. The extent of my Bergen County
knowledge was limited to a few visits to Mahwah to visit a friend from Rutgers
and a few horrifying experiences with the perpetually angry parking lot
otherwise known as Route 17. So I knew I was headed into mostly uncharted
waters. Ask anyone who’s ever known me-I am a big wuss when it comes to trying
new things and this was a VERY new thing. But I was on a “come on, Liana, change
your life-what have you got to lose” roll so I tried not to freak out. The
biggest flaw in my moving plan was knowing I wouldn’t be able to bring my two
cats to the new apartment. I cried all the time knowing I would have to leave
my furry pals. They're really great constants in a life that’s otherwise prone
to fluctuation. However, I knew my need for reliable housing would have to
trump my feline devotion.
Information began trickling in. Each passing week brought me closer
to the reality of true independence. I had only seen pictures of the complex on
the Bergen County United Way website. ( www.bergenunitedway.org ) I maintained an increasingly
towering pile of paperwork, all the while doing my best to maintain some
semblance of order. Eventually I bought several folders (different colors of
course) and wrote the contents of each folder on the front. Not the most
sophisticated system but it worked for me. My sister helped me gut my
closet-arguably the best part of moving, forcing yourself to keep only that
which REALLY matters!
In late September I was feeling particularly anxious about forfeiting
my familiar but stagnant life for a better yet unfamiliar one so I decided to
take a drive to see what Allendale was really like. How thrilled I was to
arrive in a beautiful town that seemed very much like Budd Lake, but
urban-adjacent. I drove alongside a beautiful brook and past Crestwood Lake
which looked both peaceful and fun. Then I saw the construction fencing
bordering what was soon to officially be Crescent Commons. The architecture was
beyond beautiful. I could not believe what I was seeing, it was so much more
wonderful than I’d been hoping for! I couldn’t get past the fence so I parked in
the driveway and just stared. You know when something goes so right in your
life, so meant to be, that it’s like the sun is shining on only you? That’s
what overcame me right at that moment. Infatuation-not for a person, but for a
possibility. Like falling in love with your future.
I love this and love the new place. It WAS meant to be!
ReplyDeleteHappy Valentines Day, Liana! I just thought I'd say it here because I LOVED that last line so much!
ReplyDeleteLeaving behind a familiar way of living for an entirely different adventure can certainly be frightening. But you can just think of this as a big challenge that will be fruitful in the long run. Also, try to enjoy every moment of living in that new place. I wish you all the best, Liana!
ReplyDeleteRegards,
Von Madison